A Quick Lesson on How to Not Give a Fcuk
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If there was only one thing that you could learn from me, it would be the art of being who you are unapologetically. (Also known out here in these Internet streets as how to not give a fuck.) This episode, I explain why I have none left to give and I lay down the law on how you can mimic my behavior.
Once Upon A Time…
Last week I’m minding my Black ass business, checking my inbox for money and such and I read a response to a recent email that I sent out to my subscribers.
The email began with “I don’t appreciate the profanity” and ended with “If I see another email title like this, I will be unsubscribing.”
When I initially responded, I knew that she would respond back. She felt like the “I gotta have the last word” kinda whore.
I should have exhibited my right not to give a fuck right after I read her first email.
Rules to Not Giving a Fuck
The first rule to not giving a fuck is knowing, or learning, or remembering, that in the grand scheme of things it does not matter. She was fixing to unsubscribe anyways.
Another rule I try to live by is build a lifestyle that you are proud of. If I am living in my absolute truth, then I can tell you without pause that cursing is an art.
Remember my episode on ghosting? If you don’t have history with a person, it is actually okay to ghost. You don’t owe everything to everyone.
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